Kai Eros Havens

(Was unable to find the name of the playby, sorry!)


Extra Metric Info:
Reason for enrolling: Culinary Arts and Interior Design
Class: Senior


~The Character’s Information~~
Character’s full name: Kai Eros Havens
Pronunciation: K=eye Eh-rohs Hay-vins
Name Meanings::


Kai--”Ocean” or “Sea”, a Hawaiian unisex name that’s somewhat popular


Eros-- “Love” or “Sexual desire”, In Mythology, this is the name of the God of love, lust, and sex. His Roman equivalent is Cupid, and he’s also known as the Latin version, “Amor”.


Havens-- “Safe place”, “safe hiding”. The name is based from the English word, but the word derived from Old English “haefen”


~Name Reasonings~


Kai-- Although his mother spent most of her childhood in the mountains, she moved to Hawaii with her sister. She absolutely loved it, especially for the oceans and seas. She could swim out a ways, just to see the fish and the other marine life. She loved the easy going nature of the city, it seemed like heaven on earth.
When she married young, only twenty at that time, her husband coaxed her away from the dream… and would soon turn very abusive. After she found out she was heavily pregnant, she ran. She didn’t want to be found, worried that he would kill his own son, just to have complete control. She found herself living in city after city, and it seemed damn near hopeless. When Kai was born, she named him after the one thing she missed the most- The water, the sea, the ocean. She could never forget it, and it seemed to soothe her pain once she named her son.


Eros-- It sort of carries a meaning from the first name, in a small twisted sense. She loved the oceans, but she also wanted to bless her son with the ability and traits to love. She didn’t want him full of resentment and sadness, just joy and love.


Havens: Pretty much automatic, as it was her surname before she got married.

Who named him? Strictly his mother






Age: 17 years old
Date of birth: March 29
Time of birth: 7;06 AM
Horoscope: Aries
Horoscope traits: Stubborn/Determined, Impulsive, Honest
Birth order: Only child




Sex: Male
Gender: Male
Sexual orientation: Biromantic Homosexual
Current relationship status: Single-- he lost his boyfriend in a major car accident- Kai was the sole survivor out of six.
Past relationship notes: Most of them didn’t last very long at all, since he often caught them cheating… but those that didn’t end that way, he fled after being abused. He /was/ on his own for about a year, but after the abuse, he moved back in with his mother. The boyfriend that died was the most serious yet, it went to the point where they moved in together… but the fairy tale seemed to have come to an end.




Appearance Information:::


Height: 5’4
Weight: 112 LBS
Eye color: Blue
Hair color: Blue-black (although the playby has dark brown hair)
Hair style: Medium length, straight, brushed neatly


Clothing style: Fairly casual
Piercings?: Yes
--Both ears:: Pierced twice in the lobe- One a genuine diamond, the other a small silver hoop
--Bottom lip:: Pierced once, with a small silver hoop




~Likes~
-Quieter places
-Nature in general
-Visiting the cemetery, simply to feel closer to the boyfriend/fiance he lost
-Roses, cinnamon
-Cigarettes
-Helping others
-Horses
-Small-Medium dogs (he’s afraid of the big ones after being attacked by a large dog)
--Cats, both wild and domesticated. Siamese and Rag dolls are his favorite domestic, Ocelot and Bengal his wild favorites.
-Soft music
-Rain/thunder storms, no matter how bad or how loud
--Colder weather
--Romantic dinners (he usually prepares the dinner himself, but he enjoys the closeness it brings)
-Soft kissing, but not too fond of major PDA (public displays of affection)
-Hot chocolate, especially with tons of marshmallows
-Tea, especially of the Sleepy Time varieties under Celestial Teas.
-Full moons
-Designing stuff, especially rooms and living areas,
-The smell after a rain storm
-Night driving, though he’s usually the passenger


Dislikes::
-Being yelled at
-Loud noises in general
-Large dogs
-Sirens of any sort
-The past being brought up to surface
-Being unable to get to the cemetery.
-Being told to “move on”, and similar remarks
-Nightmares, but they’re frequent
-Black coffee
-Black tea
-Others bashing others
-Major PDA, whether it be with his partner or someone else doing it
-Being unable to make dinners for those he cares about, even if it’s a simple one
-Being strung along
-The fact he falls for people rather easy
-Not being appreciated
-The food not coming out like it’s supposed to
-Being bashed for either the way he designs or cooks- He likes criticism when it’s followed with hints on how to make it better, rather than just hearing all the negativity without much help on improving it.






~Family Information~~


Father: Jason Alec Ross, 41 or so years old. Jason was a major manipulator all of his life, starting at the young age of six years old. He knew how to throw a fit just the right way to get his parents to crack and give him whatever he wanted. Even in his years of high school, he manipulated women into giving him what he wanted, most often sex, and then ditched them immediately. He could have been considered a womanizer due to this constant behavior, and yet few girls realized they were being strung along until it was too late.
This even echoed into his college years, where he talked his parents into paying for a trip to Hawaii, rather than pay their own electric bill. Once he was in Hawaii, his manipulation got even stronger. It boosted his ego to new heights when he got a young, beautiful girl to “fall in love” with him, and had coaxed her away from the very place he loved… but within two years of the marriage, she saw a way out. She knew the abuse he put her through wasn’t right- and she left despite his warnings of killing her if he ever found her again… and she reacted on that light once she realized that she was definitely pregnant with his son. She fled, and fled, moving from city to city in hopes of erasing a trail that he could follow to find her.
The only time that Jason ever found out about Kai was when mentions of child support came up...but, as always, Jason wiggled his way out of it… By simply moving far, far away, and refusing to hand out his information to those back in the states.


Mother:: Eva Sarah Havens, 38 years old. Eva used to be a free spirit, careless to the errors of the world. She was a painter, a sculptor, an artist of almost all mediums. She loved art, especially while she remained in Hawaii. She mingled quite well with the folks in her city, and was quite the lively little flower. She would often simply go swimming in the sea, just to enjoy the cool refreshing water, and to see the marine life around her. She loved fishing, scuba diving, anything that she could try, she did. She was around when there was liveliness happening, no matter where it was.
However, after meeting a rather charming, gentle natured man, things took a drastic turn. He promised her everything under the sun, if she would just come back to the states with him… And, much like a younger woman without much cares, she agreed… but it would soon be a nightmare.
Within a mere year or so, everything came crashing down. She was abused horribly, and was often pushed to her breaking point. She kept trying to tell herself she would leave when the time was right…. But it took realizing that she was pregnant to force her into believing the time was right, that it had to be at that second. She fled from the hospital as soon as she could, taking young Kai with her. From there, she city-hopped for what seemed like forever, before she finally found a place for them to call their own, right outside of Salem boundaries. Due to the usual “big 1-8, I’m gone” attitude, Kai left for about a year, returning nearly as broken as she once was. Although Eva is much happier, and somewhat back to herself, she would never feel whole again, and it broke her heart when she realized her son had been put into a similar light.
When he came home with his more serious boyfriend, she was happy, and felt blessed. She had no qualms at all with her son being with males, but noticed he was somewhat drawn to females as well. Still, it was a simple one relationship that could have once been considered a fairy tale..
The fairy tale crashed to an ending when she heard the town sirens, and people called her letting her know that Kai, his boyfriend, and two or three others were involved into a major accident, and that she needed to report to the hospital immediately.
Her son is still her baby, but she hopes the school year will take some of the defeat off of his shoulders, and give him a new focus in life. She knows he visits the grave fairly often, but she knows deep in her heart that… well, eventually he would have to let go, and try to love again. Eventually… What a funny word. It could happen now, or it could happen several years down the road… just eventually.